“Next of kin” is a term that comes up often when discussing post-death legal matters such as wills and funeral arrangements. Because it is frequently used, it is important to understand what it means and what happens when there is no next of kin. Here is further insight into the term and how it is used in the funeral industry.
“Next of kin” typically refers to a person’s closest living relative. The relative can be blood-related, such as children, parents or siblings, or can be someone who has a legal relationship with an individual, such as a spouse or adopted children.
Understanding how “next of kin” works after a death (particularly while planning a memorial or service) can be confusing. Recently I ran into someone shortly before the memorial who was not t he next of kin but wanted me to read a letter for them. They were very disappointed when I informed them that I do not have permission to add anything or remove anything from the service that was not approved by the next of kin. In fact I went further when I told them that they did not have permission to make changes either.
Unfortunately, I have seen how fast things can go sideways when a minister does not stick to the rule of only next of kin can make changes to the service.
One person is the next of kin and all decisions must go through the next of kin. It is to protect everyone involved but especially the loved one is is actually responsible for all the details.
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