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The Lord’s Prayer

The Lord's Prayer Most people appreciate and gain strength from the Lord's Prayer.  Even if people are not involved in a church, they still feel comforted by its words.  There are good reasons why many recovery groups end their times together with the Lord's Prayer. If you forgot the words, here is the more traditional … Continue reading The Lord’s Prayer

5 Mistakes in Planning A Funeral or Memorial

Five common mistakes we make in planning a funeral / memorial There are a lot of details and moving parts to planning a funeral or memorial.  Unless you work in the industry and plan these events often, you more than likely will make one of more of the following mistakes. Skip using the pastor or celebrant … Continue reading 5 Mistakes in Planning A Funeral or Memorial

How long should a funeral or memorial last?

How long is a typical celebration of life service?  Typically a funeral or memorial last between 45 minutes and and hour. The length of the event is often determined by several things including number of special songs, special reading, number eulogies, and a time for “open mic” (which is a time for those present to … Continue reading How long should a funeral or memorial last?

Who do you invite to speak at the funeral / memorial? (personal eulogy)

Who do you have speak and give personal tribute? Who you choose to speak at  the upcoming funeral or memorial you are planning will determine the success of the event.  I have seen the best and worst.  From my two decades of experience, here are a few ideas to keep in mind. Choose folks who … Continue reading Who do you invite to speak at the funeral / memorial? (personal eulogy)

Writing a funeral eulogy – what NOT to write

So you’ve been asked to say a few words at a funeral / memorial… Public speaking is one thing, but speaking publicly at the funeral of a friend or family member is something even harder.   Because of the high amount of emotion, it’s imperative to prepare your words well.  This is not a good … Continue reading Writing a funeral eulogy – what NOT to write

How to write eulogy (How to write a personal tribute for a funeral)

So you've been asked to say a few words at a funeral / memorial... Public speaking is one thing, but speaking publicly at the funeral of a friend or family member is something even harder.   Because of the high amount of emotion, it's imperative to prepare your words well.  This is not a good … Continue reading How to write eulogy (How to write a personal tribute for a funeral)