Understanding the Role of Next of Kin in Funeral Planning

It is crucial to comprehend that there is only one designated Next of Kin (NOK) representing the family in situations involving the passing of a loved one. This principle holds significant importance for several reasons. Firstly, having a single NOK streamlines decision-making during a time when emotions run high and practical matters need to be … Continue reading Understanding the Role of Next of Kin in Funeral Planning

Too many cooks in the kitchen

Limit the number of decision makers Too many “decision makers” involved in the planning of a memorial service often creates unnecessary stress and even conflict. With good motives folks ask too many people their opinions on music, order, and poetry. Unfortunately if you have too many decision makers inevitably someone gets their feelings hurt. Emotions … Continue reading Too many cooks in the kitchen

Navigating Virtual Funerals After COVID-19

The COVID-19 pandemic has transformed funeral services, leading to the rise of virtual funerals that comply with social distancing guidelines. These online gatherings facilitate participation from those unable to attend in person, accommodating larger audiences and ensuring safety. While not a substitute for traditional services, they offer meaningful alternatives for memorialization during challenging times.

First year after loss is the toughest

The Grieving Has Begun Now that everyone has gone home and the house is again quit, the pain and grieving officially begins.  No one wishes this on anyone.  The process to settle into this new "normal" will take longer than expected.  All good things usually do. But there are things to keep in mind as … Continue reading First year after loss is the toughest